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Attracted to other people despite being in a relationship

Asked by Female, 21, Single
I'm in a relationship. It has been 1 year 8 months, but there are other guys who are genuinely interested in me. The guys who are interested in me are very serious and dream of marrying me but i just don't have the guts to tell them that I'm in a relationship. Rather I enjoy the spot light knowing it's not right. Why am i attracted to them even though i'm in a relationship. This thought makes me feel worse about myself. This gives me a bad image. And I'm in constant fear to hurt anyone's feeling as i have already hurt a lot of them.
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Chandni Gandhi
Counselling Psychologist


i can understand guilt and fear you are going through because of such situations, but anything that makes us feel this way, we should realise that its time to do something about it.

i would highly suggest for you to have personal chat or telephonic session and lets discuss this in detail to come down to better solution.

Hope this helps

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