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Boyfriend may be cheating on me, denies when asked directly

Asked by Female, 18, Single
I think my boyfriend my cheated on me. I told him not to talk to his ex girlfriend ever and yesterday my friend who is a mutual of his ex too told me that they met 2 years backn think they are still in touch. The most hurtful part is when i asked my boyfriend about it he just denied.
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Chandni Gandhi
Counselling Psychologist

Hi,

i understand that you are feeling insecure because your boyfriend continues to meet his ex-girl friend.

however, its your boyfriends choice to decide on if he wants to be friends with his ex-girlfriend or not, many people choose to continue being friends with their ex's, and they do completely fine, however if it bothers you all you can do is express your views, but not put control over any other individual.

For all you know he could have lied and denied just because he is afraid of rejection from you and loose you, talk to him and understand why he is doing what he is.

if you have some strong proofs that makes you believe that your boyfriend and ex-girlfriend are not just friends but something else, only then you have something to worry about and we can talk about how to deal with it, but from what i understand i don't sense any of it.

Trust him little more and enjoy, and celebrate all the reasons of togetherness with him

Hope this helps,

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