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Brother's wife fighting regularly for petty issues

Asked by Female, 30, Married
My brother's wife fights with him often over petty issues. She has even abused our father. My brother cannot tolerate it any more.
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Komal
Counseling Psychologist

Hi Writer, thank you for writing in. It takes great courage to reach out for help.

It seems that your brother is facing difficulty in his marriage and this is leaving you worried for him. Your brother's wife fights quite often with him for small reasons. I understand that it must be a difficult for the both of you to deal with. Now, this being your brother's marriage, it would be more beneficial if either or both of them were to go for counselling. Sine it is their marriage, they would be able to provide more details on the same that would help better understand the context of their marriage and of course, it is them who need to make the changes required for the betterment of their marriage. Various things need to be explored here to understand what is really happening and what needs change. I would suggest if you could speak to your brother or both of them about this.

However, it seems that you are quite disturbed and affected by this. If such is the case, we could work on it together in this process.

How would you like me to help you with your situation? What is it that you are hoping to seek through this counselling process?

Please respond back to continue our discussion. Looking forward to hearing from you.
Warm regards.

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