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Communication issues with my spouse

Asked by Female, 33, Married
Hello, There is always a problem with our marriage. My husband irritates with every single silly thing. If we talk about a day we won't be able to talk to each other for a month or so. He doesn't communicate well when we are speaking also. I am frustrated, kindly help
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Sneha
Psychotherapist

Dear Writer, thank you for writing to us. I understand you are very upset about the state of your marriage. I think you feel unimportant and that your husband doesn't value your presence in his life. You feel left out. I think you also feel very hurt and frustrated when you and your husband are not able to connect and talk to each other. It hurts you more to see him talk more wholeheartedly with others but not you.
Somehow the way you both communicate is creating more friction than solving issues. To understand your situation better can you tell me more about yourself and your husband as individuals? How long have you been married and when did this problem start?
Please message back to continue our discussion. Regards.

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