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Depressed due to change in husband's behavior after marriage and lack of intimacy

Asked by Female, 31, Married
I am going through a depression in my marriage. I don't think that I have made a right choice for me. I love him but I am not at all satisfied with his way of handlingthings and making me happy. He is changing rapidly and becoming more selfish and rude. I dislike so many habits of his that it is getting difficult to accept him. Our intimacy is not there after marriage. That is again a very big concern of our marriage and making feel incomplete.
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Madhuri Mohan
Counselling Psychologist

Hi there, I am sorry to hear that you are currently unhappy and feeling depressed. I can imagine the kind of pain you are in and it may not have been easy to come out and share this. However, by doing so, you have shown great courage. If you are unhappy in your current marriage, it would be advisable to seek professional help. Possibly see a marriage counselor or any other professional to discuss this matter in more depth. You may even need to bring your husband in and attend a few sessions together as you alone cannot fix this situation. In a marriage, there are always two people involved and these two people have to work together to solve whatever problems that they are having. You and your husband need to sit and communicate your feelings to each other in a controlled environment. You are welcome to send me a private message with further details so I will be able to guide further. I hope to hear from you soon.Stay strong. Thanks. :)

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