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Have an affair with a married man. Don't think he will marry me.

Asked by Female, 32, Single
Hi, I am having an affair with a married guy since three years. He is a real good human being, but he hides his marital status at the beginning, later he told me by himself. He lives in another city but come twice in a month to see me. He has all the qualities of a good boyfriend. At the beginning he wanted to marry me in court but I things we are not settled out then, now I want to get marry but he told me that he won't marry me now. He told me that from three years he and his wife are not living with each other, that's true because he never ignore me anytime. Also they had an adopted child. Now I think that he won't marry me, his priority is still his wife and child.
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Sneha
Psychotherapist

Dear Writer, I understand your anxiety about the fate of your relationship. You mentioned that your boyfriend is great and he had all the qualities you want in a partner, yet doesn't want to marry you. I wonder if it isn't hurtful to have to know that? Secondly even though him and his wife are separated, are they divorced or are the proceedings on? Do you know why he doesn't want to marry you and have you discussed it? Had something happened to make him change his mind? The most important question you might might have to ask yourself is of you trust him enough to wait till he comes around? Please do message back to continue our discussion or you could consider a phone session as well.

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