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How to get over a person with whom I can't have a relationship?

Asked by Male, 37, Single
There is a person who entered in my life recently. And amazing Soul. After being with him for a while when I came back , I realized people around me have started expressing their love for me a little more. Everything has become beautiful. I notice colors a little more and stop to smell flowers. More I get love from others more I miss that person . I want to be with him . But I can't because we have time and geographical barriers. What can I do to let my aching heart calm down? How can I stop dreaming about that person? What the hell is happening?
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Harish Bhuvanendran
Life Coach

Greetings :)

It is a feeling that often happens, when in initial stages of love that you are in, everything is beautiful. You feel empowered. Often I have noticed that whenever you are in that phase, you tend to love yourself more, the results of which are astounding.

When the 'self' is loved by the 'self', everyone around you tends to love you more, and that is what is happening with you also. May be this person is making you realize that you are lovable and since you have started loving yourself more, everyone loves you more and you embrace the beauty in nature.

This person might have come to make you realize to love yourself, since the barriers are existing, there is nothing that you can do about it, but love yourself more and more. This is heaven what is happening to you. I hope you never stop loving yourself and also whenever possible break those geographical barriers and get to this person who has made you realize what it is to be loved.

Love, Harish

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