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How to tell a good friend that I'm attracted to her?

Asked by Male, 23, Single
I have an attraction towards a girl I don't know it's love or not she's my friend's ex girlfriend and she is a very good friend of mine but the things that she still loves my friend and I feel happy when she is beside me and always want her by my side but I can't express my feelings for her, she says that am her bestest friend.. What to do???
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Chandni Gandhi
Counselling Psychologist


I can understand your confusion, On one hand you would want to express and feels frustrated to not being able to do that, and on another scared that if you express what you feel, you might end up hurting her, however if you have strong feelings and are sure about it, you may want to consider expressing your feelings to her, chances are she will understand, considering she says she is really good friend of yours

Hope this helps,

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