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Hurt because boyfriend is unaffected by our break up

Asked by Female, 19, Single
I'm a 19 year old female who has recently broken up! Breakups for me are aweful! I can't sleep ,I've started talking less, it's really depressive and what's more depressive is seeing him everyday absolutely fine without me, not just fine but happy and not bothered. It hurts to see him because this Gives me a feeling that all that he said, did was fake. Please help me, else I'll soon be in depression!
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Harish Bhuvanendran
Life Coach

When the 'self' is loved by the 'self', everyone around you tends to love you more, and that is what is happening with you also. May be this person is making you realize that you are lovable and since you have started loving yourself more, everyone loves you more and you embrace the beauty in nature.This person might have come to make you realize to love yourself, since the barriers are existing, and you can't be with each other any more, there is nothing that you can do about it, but love yourself more and more. I hope you never stop loving yourself and also whenever possible break those those thoughts about getting into depression and apart from that there this wonderful portal that has opened up wherein, we are all there for you.Find things to do, indulge in activities that you would like to do and do more of it and love it.Write to us, if we can further help you to co-create a space.Thanks. 

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