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Husband disrespects women, leches at women

Asked by Female, 24, Married
My husband thinks he has done a favor by marrying me. He has no respect for women and ogles women when out in the streets.
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Komal
Counseling Psychologist

Hi Writer, thank you for writing in. It takes great courage to reach out for help.

It seems that you are facing difficulty in your marriage with regard to your husband's behaviour towards other women. I understand that it must be a difficult position for you to be in considering that you find his behaviour disrespectful and are not comfortable with it.

Firstly, I would appreciate the courage in you for being able to manage so far. I can imagine that this must not have been easy for you.
If you feel comfortable, could you tell me more about you and your husband as individuals? What do you both do?
Since when have you been married?
When did these issues start? How was the marriage before that? Any reason for him to behave this way?
What makes you feel that your husband believes he has done a favour by marrying you?
Have you tried to communicate to your husband about how you feel when he disrespects women and ogles at them?
How have you been managing with your situation so far?

Secondly, how would you like me to help you with your situation? What is it that you are hoping to seek through this counselling process?

Please respond back to continue our discussion. Looking forward to hearing from you.
Warm regards.

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