Husband is having an affair but I want him back

Hi Writer, thank you for writing in. It takes great courage to reach out for help.

It seems that you are facing difficulty in your marriage. I understand that it must be a difficult position for you to have found out about your husband's infidelity.

Firstly, I would appreciate the courage in you for being able to manage so far. I can imagine how devastating this must have been for you and it certainly is not easy to handle such big news.

Could you tell me a little bit about yourself and your husband as individuals? How long have you been married? Was it an arranged marriage or a love marriage? How has the marriage been so far for the both of you? How and when did you find out about your husband cheating on you?
Answering these questions would help me understand your situation better and enable me to guide you accordingly.

Secondly, how would you like me to help you with your situation? What is it that you are hoping to seek through this counselling process?

Please respond back to continue our discussion. Looking forward to hearing from you.
Warm regards.