I am in love with my close friend but she is in touch with her ex. Feeling insecure!

Dear Writer, thank you for writing in. I understand you are upset about the situation you are in. What I would like you to clarify is if your friend feels the same way for you?
Unless she's your girlfriend, she is free to interact with whomever she chooses. I understand it hurts you to see your friend give her ex more importance over you. It makes you feel rejected. If she sees you only as a friend while for you clearly it's a lot more than that and therefore your expectations from her are also well beyond that of a friend which is something she can't fulfill whether or not she was interacting with her ex. I think you are finding it hard to accept this. At this point the choice is yours, to either wait for her to warm up to you or to let her go. If you feel some distance will help you then you should do that. I think the reason you get back in touch everytime is possibly because you keep hoping that it will be different. I wonder if you fear letting her go because you know it will hurt to let go.
Please message back to let me know what you think. Regards
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