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I broke up with my boyfriend, now he is threatening me

Asked by Female, 25, Single
I broke up with my boyfriend. I am facing threats now. I don't know what to do? He is telling me that he will send people to rape me. He will molest me. He will kidnap me. I am helpless. Please help me. Please. He is contacting my friends and asking them to tell me to stay out of his life. I am scared. I don't know what to do anymore. I am scared. Please help me.
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Kiran Lakhani
Counselling Psychologist


Thank you for writing in to us.

After going through what you have shared with us I will suggest you to inform about this to your parents. However scared you are about what your parents might say to you, please inform your parents or any elder in your house. If someone is threatening you so much best is to handle it legally. Also because your safety is in question. Being honest with parents will be easier than bearing all this for long.

As far as your fears are concerned, they are normal and natural. I can imagine what you might be going through. Its not easy to live in such great fear all the time. The dilemma of whether to tell your parents or not will be really tough. But trust me on this, it is easier to be honest with your parents and come out clean with them than to risk your safety.

Please take care of yourself and inform an elder in family.

I hope it helps.

All the best.

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