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In need of divorce, as my husband is going against my feelings

Asked by Female, 30, Married
My husband is not letting me to go for a job as he don't like to send our kid to a day care center. I agreed and now she is 4 years old still he says the same.Two months back he bought a puppy to our apartment with out informing me.I don't like pets. He knows it well but he is not ready to give it to someone else.Now i have to take care of it during day time. During weekdays he is busy at work and on weekends he goes out with his friends saying that he need relief from the work stress.I am fed up with these things and asked him for a divorce but he refused.Ours was a love marriage and so i don't want to tell these to my parents and i don't expect any help from them. Now i can't control my anger even to my daughter. Please help me.
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Michelle
Counseling Psychologist

Hi Writer, thank you for reaching out to us. You seem to be feeling quite stuck in your situation. I understand there is anger and frustration. How long have you and your husband been married for? Also, have you spoken to your husband about feeling overwhelmed with all the things you have to take care f at home before you asked for the divorce?

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