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Incompatibility in relationship

Asked by Female, 22, In relationship
My partner and I are incompatible. We cannot connect and we fight.
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Komal
Counseling Psychologist

Hi Writer, thank you for writing in. It takes great courage to reach out for help.

It seems that you are facing difficulty in your relationship with regard to incompatibility. Due to this you are hardly able to connect to your partner which in turn is leading to frequent fights and conflicts, leaving you both bitter. I understand that it must be a difficult position for you to be in given that you both are also handling personal problems of your own that affects your well being as well.

Firstly, I would appreciate the courage in you for being able to manage so far. I am sure that dealing with personal problems as well as having to manage a relationship is not an easy task.
Also could you tell me a little bit more about yourself and your partner as individuals and as well as about your relationship with him. How long have you been together?
What incompatibilities do you find in your relationship? Could you tell me certain instances of your fights/conflicts? Have you talked to him about this? What does he have to say? Have you tried anything so far that worked and/or did not work?
Answering these questions would help me understand your situation better and enable me to assist you accordingly.

Secondly, how would you like me to help you with your situation? What is it that you are hoping to seek through this counselling process?

Please respond back to continue our discussion. Looking forward to hearing from you.
Warm regards.

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