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Inter-caste relationship. Boy is hesitating for court marriage.

Asked by Female, 32, Single
I am in a relationship with a Bhandary boy and me being from North Brahmin clan. Court Marraige is the only option with us it seems. But boy is hesitant because of parents health. How should we go ahead with this?
Answer
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Sneha
Psychotherapist

Dear Writer, thank you writing in. I need to get a better grip of your situation. Can you elaborate on why court marriage is the only option for you two? Are you suggesting your parents may not give consent? Do the parents know about you two? Your partner is hesitant because of his parents health.. is he concerned that this news might affect them somehow? Currently where do you and your partner stand and how long have you both been together? Please do message back to continue our discussion.

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