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Long distance relationship. Things are going bad, we hardly talk to each other!

Asked by Female, 18, Single
We are in a long distance relationship and these day's we hardly talk to each other and even if I call also he talks to me very rudely. We met recently and things were normal but after going back to his place, we didn't even talk properly. Is it a sign that he is bored of me?
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Sneha
Psychotherapist

Dear writer, thank you for writing in.
Long distance relationships can be hard because you have to fall back on communicating via phones / online completely to make it work. However this works only if both parties involved understand the reality of the situation and put in the efforts required. Situations such as this require one to asses whether they can handle the demands of a long distance relationship. Insecurities will surface when there is change noted in conversations. Distances can build up and create a disconnect. Which is why some couples try to meet up more often to deal with the disconnect. I cant tell whether your boyfriend is disinterested but it seems that you are picking up on it. Do try talking to him about this disconnect and if both of you could work on it together. It might help to have this conversation face to face. He might be more receptive that way.

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