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Love my wife very much but she hates me and wants to take divorce.

Asked by Male, 39, Married
I am male 39 years, I am married and about to be divorced, me and my wife are separated for almost a year now. My problem is that I love my wife very very much, unfortunately she doesn't share the same feeling, in fact she has made it clear to me numerous times that she hates me. I find it difficult to have a life with out her, not a moment passes by without remembering her. I know I can't force her to love me. I need help because the current situation and stress is causing problems in my personal, professional life. Please guide me.
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Sneha
Psychotherapist

Dear Ajay, thank you for writing in. It takes courage to take this step and reach out to us. I understand you are very distressed and your professional life affected because of the situation you are in. I gather that you are married but separated for a year from your wife whom you still love very much. There's little or no room for a reconciliation since your wife had made her feelings quite clear. I wonder if knowing that hurts you...
The problem according to you is you have trouble living your life without her. The main question here is what do you want to do? Do you want to move on or do you want your wife back? I suspect you are stuck in a limbo because of this.
To understand you better and help you accordingly could you also tell me more about yourself as an individual. If you feel comfortable you could also share some details about your relationship just to help me get a perspective. Please do message back to continue our discussion. I am here to help. Regards.

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