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Moved city and missing my hostel life and friends. Feeling guilty about the attachment with a boy inspite of having boyfriend for 6 years.

Asked by Female, 27, Single
I have moved to my hometown from studying place after finishing my undergraduation and postgraduation. Moving back home after staying in hostel for last 10 years brought a lot of adjustment issues. I miss my freedom. Here everyone expect me to discuss each and everything before taking any step. I thought its may be because I didn't have a proper job at the beginning. But after getting job also I am upset. Since I was away for many years, I have very few high school friend left in home town. So I thought of making new friends in social site, where I met a guy who stayed in opposite building. After meeting him twice or thrice I realized it's not right, as I have a boyfriend for 6 years in another city. So now I am feeling guilty and upset. But still I have crave for the new guy's attention. I miss my old life in hostel. I keep working to avoid being at home. I can't sleep at night.
Answer
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Hepzibah.P
Counseling Psychologist

Hi, would like to what's the problem you would like to work on? Your environmental adjustment? Relationship? Love matter?what is it? Because you mentioned here three problem.....
Which is bothering you much??

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