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My wife engrossed herself, has outgoing nature. I am stressed due to my illness

Asked by Male, 36, Married
I am 35 year old male married for almost a decade. I have a daughter who is 5 years old. I cannot stand my wife for the reason that she is just engrossed in herself every time. I am having a critical heart ailment due to which I am very stressed out every time. My wife has an outgoing nature and like to go out and party with friends everytime. I think may be this is because I am critically ill and unable to perform my duties. I want to get divorced but thought of giving a last chance to the marriage by consulting. Kindly let me know if you can help.
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Dr. Joseph
Counseling Psychologist

Hello Writer,

Thank you for reaching out to the Askmile team with you concerns regarding your marriage. I am a professional counsellor with 25 years of experience in marriage and family counselling. I will be responding to your concerns and questions. We are here to help you. Whenever you have something disturbing keep writing to me and I will respond with one comprehensive response every day.

You are married for almost a decade and have a five year old daughter. You feel that your wife is not interested in you any more. You feel helpless that you are not able to perform your marital duties. As a socially outgoing person she has her own programs and activities, including parties, which make you feel deeply frustrated. I know how much you are disturbed. The heart ailment is not your own creation but its causing a lot of struggles for you to manage. I am here to help you.

Why is that you cannot stand your wife? You said she is engrossed in her own things. Tell me more about it.

You thought of divorce for a long time but you are making one last attempt to see you can save your marriage.

To provide a comprehensive answer kindly tell us more about yourself and your marriage.

Was it a love or arranged marriage?
How old is she?
Are you employed?
Is she employed?
How often she go for parties?
When did you find about your heart ailment? Before marriage or after marriage?
Basic information about each one's family

Please get back to us with more details.

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