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Parents do not like the guy I want to marry

Asked by Female, 24, Single
I have been in a relationship since 8 years with my guy and my parents don't like him. I love him a lot . My parents don't like him because he dropped out of engineering college.. but he is doing is masters in UK and struggling to get job as well . I have been convincing my parents a lot about this but there are so many fights regarding the same issue. They want me to get married to whom they show ( arrange marriage ) My mom is been crying a lot regarding this and she is too stressed because of this I don't want her to cry anymore because of me . Though I can't live without my guy I have decided to scarifise everything for her
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Harish Bhuvanendran
Life Coach

Greetings :)You ought to work out of your strength here, I mean first of all it is his education that your parents are worried about, so you need to make him understand your parent's priorities at first and of course if you are thinking that you can do anything for your parents, then you can obviously make him understand.You can convince him, when the time is right; then you have to make him understand that and ask him to set his priorities right and then anyway you both have utmost trust on each other then things will fall in place and the self-confident person that you are, I don't see you getting through this problem with a lot of thought necessary to provide to this difficult time. Thanks :)

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