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Parents want us to break up and focus on studies

Asked by Female, 17, Single
I'm a 12th std student. I have been in a serious relationship with my guy. He's a final year graduate. We belong to same caste, religion n language. But recently his parents got to know about us n they are insisting him to leave me. As dis is his final year so his parents want him to study n shouldn't distract himself in all this. They even said if u don't stop doing all dat then they won't behave properly with him. There is a lot of time to get married. And m sure I will be able to convince his parents. So now he's in a deliema what to do
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Harish Bhuvanendran
Life Coach

Greetings :)

You ought to work out of your strength here, I mean first of all it is his education that his parents are worried about, so you need to make him understand his priorities at first and of course if you have the surety that you can convince his parents, when the time is right; then you have to make him understand that and ask him to set his priorities right and then anyway you both have utmost trust on each other then things will fall in place and the self-confident person that you are, I don't see you getting through this problem with a lot of thought necessary to provide to this difficult time.

Thanks :)

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