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Rejected by boy in college, stressed, started smoking, attempted suicide

Asked by Female, 18, Single
I have just started college and I have lied my way through to grab attention. I really like a boy and have confessed but he loves someone else but says that he likes me also. I'm stressing way too much and have started smoking. I've tried suicide 3-4 times till date but I'm also a coward so never could do it.
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Harish Bhuvanendran
Life Coach

Hi, First of all let me tell that you have a lot courage to come to a portal and open up and I really appreciate you that you are doing this, Secondly it is really fine to feel this way about a person, but if things are not working out, the dependance should be avoided, because any substance when started with a reason in our real life from avoidance, then it becomes an addiction over time, and we tend to abuse the usage of substance.

Moreover, you have immense amount of intelligence, because you have analysed the entire situation and you know where you stand in you life right now, with that I would like to say that, this guy is not helping you out to sort your life any better, rather he is putting three life off track. I suggest you find your way out of this tricky situation that you are in.

If in case you are still bothered, we all are here to help you out, reach out to us and we can co-create a space and see how we can come up with ways of getting you out of it, if you want that, and If you are being suicidal, we would suggest you immediately call up a suicide prevention helpline - eg Vandrevala Foundation Helpline - 1 860 266 2345 (24x7), Aasra - +91 22 2754 6669 (24x7).

Thanks :)

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