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Should I trust a girl who sends out mixed signals?

Asked by Male, 29, Single
I am in love with a girl for the last 3 years, she indirectly gives me hint that she loves me and she knows that I love her but everytime I talk about my love for her she ignores but at times she gives me strong hints. She lives in a different city now but we are in touch everyday but for the last 3 months there's a change in her, even if i don't text her she doesn't text me back anymore and I can see that she is online even in the late hours of night, though she have never been a liar but she tells me that she talks to no one and even if she finds someone interesting then she is mature enough to spill the beans. Now what should I do, trust her like always or move away.
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Harish Bhuvanendran
Life Coach

Hey,

You yourself have written that, things are drifting apart and that things are not working out. Even though the partner is coming online but there are no responses, why would you demean yourself by being in a state of mind where you are expecting something which you yourself are knowing that is drifting apart.

What you can do is have a direct conversation with that person, face-to-face probably and sort things out and get a clear idea of what is going on, so that you can know whether to trust her like always or to come to acceptance to the fact of moving away.

I can understand how painful it is for, but you have to take this stance and do it, if you are finding difficulty at it, please write to us at any point of time, and we will try to co-create a space where in we would come up with a possible way out of this dilemma that you are facing right now.

Thanks.

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