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Unsure about commitment to marry girlfriend with dark complexion

Asked by Male, 28, Single
Okay.. I have a girlfriend and its almost 5 years that we are in relationship. Few days ago I said that I will marry her. She has dark complexion and sometimes I really feels that I have mistaken by committing of marriage. My relatives used to say that they will find me a very beautiful n fair girl as well as I worth a good looking girl. My gf started dreaming of our marriage and so so.. I don't want to hurt her. I am badly confused. (Plz don't tell me that complexion doesn't matter or I am having bad attitude .. Everyone is free to choose his/her type of wife/husband)
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Chandni Gandhi
Counselling Psychologist

Dear, friend

I respect freedom of choice and cannot agree more that everyone is free to choose kind of partner they want to be in relationship with, and so i respect your choice of dating her, it seems like complexion did not come in way when you started dating your girlfriend and continued so for 5 years, so what has changed now?

Reflecting upon this will help you get your answer.

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