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Want to re-unite with my ex-partner

Asked by Male, 17, Single
It's relationship and my physical activities. My ex have another relationship and she left him also and now I want her to come back. So that I only can have relation with her only I don't want any physical contact with other personality
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Indu Padmakumar
Counselling Psychologist and Special Educator

Hi,
It seems to me that you seem to still have feelings for your ex girlfriend.
It is completely understandable to want to be with the person you love.
However, I would suggest you take her feelings into consideration as well.
As she has just gone through a break up, chances are she needs time to heal from the previous relationship.
After a break up, it is usually hard for both partners to deal, regardless of who broke up with whom.
It not advisable to jump into another relationship after a break up.
I would suggest you consider her feelings, give her time to heal emotionally and be patient.
After some time has passed, communicate your interest to be with her.
Ultimately the decision lies with her, so don't be too disappointed if she does not seem interested to get into a relationship yet.
Give it your best shot and treat her well.
All the best.

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