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Wife does not want to have sex

Asked by Male, 30, Married
My wife is unhappy with me and does not want to have sex. We got married (arranged) a year and half back. I am not sure how to deal with this. Please help
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Komal
Counseling Psychologist

Hi Writer, thank you for writing in. It takes great courage to reach out for help.

It seems that you are facing difficulty in your marriage with regard to sexual intimacy with your spouse. I understand that it must be a difficult position for you to be in considering it is a relatively new relationship which you entered in with certain expectations, one of which your wife currently does seem to be able to fulfil.

Firstly, I would appreciate the courage in you for being able to manage so far for seven months. I can imagine that this must not have been easy for you.

Also, could you tell me a little bit more about yourself and your wife as individuals? What do you both do? Was it an arranged or love marriage?
Have you tried talking to your wife about this? What does she have to say?
Answering these questions would enable me to guide you better.

Secondly, how would you like me to help you with your situation? What is it that you are hoping to seek through this counselling process?

Please respond back to continue our discussion. Looking forward to hearing from you.
Warm regards.

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