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Wife left me 10 years back. Now attracted towards 30 year old married but estranged woman

Asked by Male, 62, Married
I am a married man aged 62 years. My wife has given up marital life 10 years back. I managed to stay alone all these years as I had my work and friends. Now I am attracted to a 30 year old married woman who is estranged from her husband. The allurement is overwhelming. What should I do?
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Dr. Joseph
Counseling Psychologist

Thanks for reaching out to the askmile team with your concerns about your marriage as well as your attraction with a 30 years old married but estranged from her husband. When the allurement is overwhelming it is not easy to control the interest and passion you feel, especially when there is emotional and physical-sexual deprivation in your marriage. As this younger woman is free from her marriage she might be also interested in you. I agree with you, it very tough to say, NO. Rather, there are many reasons to say YES and enjoy with this woman whom you found alluring. But your question in the end indicates you are torn with this situation and that you want to take the right decision. In this regard, let me ask you the following questions:

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