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Child & Adoloscent Asked by male, 14 years. single

Unable to make new friends in new school

I am unable to make friends at my new school as I find them very childish. I am unhappy.

Hey, First and foremost, let me say thank you for writing to us. You are very smart as you have taken the step to find a solution, rather than continuing to sulk and feel sad. It must be quite difficult to move to another school and a new environment with all the different expectations from everyone and like once again starting for scratch. I have interacted with hundreds of children who are a part of Army Public School where i go for career counselling, and I can actually understand what you are going through as they too have many changes in their lives due to the transfers their...
Child & Adoloscent Asked by male, 15 years. single

Communication issues with family and best friend, studies affected

Should I stay alive? My friends hate me, my family hates me, my best friend, the only one I had, has become estranged. Studies are going to crap. I can't possibly live this way, should I even live anymore?

Hi, Thank you for asking this very important question you have to us. It must be quite a situation to have so many disappointments all at one time. But I must say you are really brave and are a very good analyst too. Because you have observed yourself very well. It is true that life becomes very difficult at times and we wonder, what is the point in living, when no one loves us. I somehow always encourage everyone to reach a point when you love yourself first. You must be aware of the law of attraction, It teaches us the rule of physics of attraction and creation. Let me give you an...
Child & Adoloscent Asked by female, 15 years. single

Committed mistakes that are now on my conscience

I am 15 yrs old and think I have suffered a lot. I have tried suicide once, was going stab myself with a knife but then stopped. I had approached a counsellor and she said I am in depression. During the pas year I have done a lot of mistakes which I feel have dirtied my conscience. What should I...

Hey, I understand where you are coming from and it is fine to have a thought process like this, but now what I would highly recommend you is that you change your current habits which is making you travel down that path. Make some changes in your lifestyle and you will see that the thought processes are changing and you are clearing your conscience. Some of the things that I follow personally:Becoming more rational - Learn about what frightens you, bring facts to light that offer genuine reassurance. Don't go by rumours and speculations that fuel fear.Take yourself out of the anxiety loop -...
Child & Adoloscent Asked by female, 18 years. single

Feeling unhappy all the time, tried to cut myself

I don't know whats happening to me, I'm just 12 and I suffer from body issues and I say things i don't mean. My family hates me and the only way to stop my thoughts is the internet. Maybe I overuse it, maybe it's helping me. Last week was the time I had my darkest thought, even tried cutting, it...

Hi,I can feel the amount of things you have kept to yourself and would want to share, please help me understand what do you mean by body issuse's and what kind of things do you say which you do not mean, sharing will help your brain calm down and not explode as you would have poured your heart out. i would strongly suggest you to either meet up mental health professional face to face with some adult in your family that you trust , if you leave your location in personal message it will be safe and we can help you locate one near by. we are not suicide prevention helpline or medical service...
Child & Adoloscent Asked by male, 19 years. single

Suicidal thoughts due to inability to prepare for exams

I am failing in my life. I am student of a reputed engineering college in mumbai. I think i am going to fail in my semester exams. I am really having a tough time. Our admissions were delayed. We didnt even had enough time to study. Bt my friends, who also joined with me are all confident about...

Hi,As i read your passage, i can feel pressure you must be having due to exams and thoughts you are having due to pressure, having high aspirations and expecations from your own self is great quality since purpose of it is only to help us in our life and discover our own potention to fullest, however if its not serving its purpose and making us think negative about our ownself and life, whats the point of having it??These things are smaller units of life and not bigger then life itself, failing is completely fine, because you still will have second chancewe are not suicide prevention...
Child & Adoloscent Asked by female, 14 years. single

Loss of interest in studies and social life, loss of concentration, anger issues, migraines

Hi. I'm a 14 year old girl who faces a lot of problem understanding herself before others. 3-4 years ago, I used to be a big school-goer. I used to devote myself to my studies whenever needed, and had a healthy lifestyle. I had a very good circle of friends, as well. Everything has changed now....

Hi, It is extremely courageous for you to come out and ask for help, this itself shows that you are willing to end this struggle of thoughts and emotions you are going through, on one hand when you could express your emotions of anger, irritation, sadness very well on another i can understand that you are trying to figure of reasons behind all these happening and ways to come out of this trap which impacts your day to day life, with not liking schools, loosing focus on academics and reducing number of friendsTo begin with start with any physical exercise of your choice, gym, dancing, yoga,...