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Insecurity Asked by female, 34 years. married

Issues with wife due to her intense insecurity

My wife is extremely insecure and prevents me from achieving my goals due to her unreasonable behavior. Currently, she is not allowing me to take interviews. Help!

I hear that your wife is not comfortable with you taking interviews. She seems to fear the security in the relationship. Insecurities creep into due to a lot of reasons: past experience, experience of childhood while growing up, some instances or evidence as basis for the insecurity, self doubt, among many other to begin with. Try to gauge what makes your wife feel insecure and where this is stemming from. What you could try telling her is this "Honey, I know you're perhaps needing to feel more secure in this relationship. I want to know what makes you feel this way and perhaps I could...
Insecurity Asked by male, 28 years. single

Depressed due to feeling that loved ones will leave me

Im in depression about life. Feeling that everyoune will go some day or other day in my life. I feel some people to be there till my end of my life, but everyone will go immediately after sometime. I love them all too much attachment but that too much attachment is killing me now

Hi, From what you've said so far, I can understand that you are scared of being abandoned by the people that you love the most. You might feel like you're the only one who's attached. The point where we feel like we are more attached to one person, and it's not reciprocated is when we feel insecure about the relationship, and we fear the person would abandon us. First, it would be better to identify the relationship where you have felt abandoned earlier in your life. There might be some patterns in our previous relationships that would give us some insight as to why we feel that...