Lonely & Unhappy in Marriage

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Lonely & Unhappy in Marriage Asked by female, 30 years. married

Blame game, lack of time and arguments and fights destroying our marriage but I still love him a lot!

We are married for 1.3 years and its a arrange marriage. Now we both argue a lot. There's no love left between us. Blame game is on. He don't give me time. I get frustrated at official front but he don't care to talk to me regarding this concern. He don't do anything to surprise me or make me...

I see that it's not been too long since you've been married and it was an arranged marriage. The thing with arranged marriages is that you both need to take time to get to know each other, to understand each other and each other's expectations of the marriage and see if you both are on the same page about it or not. Unless you both are on the same page about what you want your future to be and how, you both are going to be on different paths that will create a push and pull in your relationship. You mention that there is no love left between the two of you, which means that there was a...
Lonely & Unhappy in Marriage Asked by female, 33 years. married

Unhappy with marriage after pregnancy and leaving job. Need help to resolve argument and fights between us.

I am 33 year old and I have daughter aged 3 years. I am married since 4 years my problem started after I got pregnant and left the job. Me and my husband we both are not happy with each other we do argue, fight, etc almost every day. I don't have parents or elders who will guide us and my...

I can imagine your helplessness being in the position that you are in. It seems as if though you feel that leaving your job and having a child has led to these issues in your marriage and that it has somehow left you less independent than you were before. You look for elderly guidance but you only have your in-laws who take sides with your husband. Moving on from being husband and wife to also becoming parents is not an easy transition. It brings along with it a lot of changes in the lives of both partners. Usually what happens in a fight is that the words spoken rarely even communicate...
Lonely & Unhappy in Marriage Asked by female, 34 years. married

Lonely and emotionally unfulfilled in marriage

I have an unhappy marriage because I feel lonely and my emotional needs are not met.

Thank you for writing in to us. Recognising when you need help and reaching out for the same is the first courageous step to be able to take towards a better self. One enters into marriage with dreams of hoping to start a new journey with their partner that is filled with love and happiness. For a happy and successful marriage, both partners need to be equally invested to work towards it. With the basic emotional needs not met and enduring a feeling of loneliness even with your partner is certainly not why someone enters into a marriage. I can imagine your pain and agony. What you...
Lonely & Unhappy in Marriage Asked by female, 33 years. married

Suicidal tendency, unhappy, discontent, impatient, low confidence

I am unhappy in my marriage. My son as of now is a really difficult child. I have suicidal tendencies. I have lost patience and confidence.

Hi Writer, thank you for writing in. It takes great courage to reach out for help. It seems that you are facing difficulty in your marriage. Your son too seems to be too much for you to handle. You do not seem to find enjoyment or happiness in anything off late so much so that it has reached upto a point of feeling suicidal. I understand that it must be a very difficult position for you to be in. Firstly, I would appreciate the courage in you for being able to manage so far. I can imagine that this must not have been an easy time for you. Could you tell me a little bit about...
Lonely & Unhappy in Marriage Asked by female, 28 years. married

Unavailable husband. He enjoys with friends and phone!

I am really struggling with my husband he gives lots of importance to his friends spends whole weekend with friends and when he is in house he'll be online in phone. He enjoys with friends and phone. Don't take care of my feelings at all. He just give what I am need to live. I can't bare his...

Dear Writer, thank you for writing in. It takes a lot of courage to reach out for help. I understand you are very troubled about your marriage. You feel like you don't matter or are valued by your husband. I wonder if it has affected the way you feel about yourself? You can bear his attitude and it makes you not want to lead a life like this. However to understand better could you tell me more about yourself and your husband as individuals? How long have you been married and when did the problems start? Have you spoken to him about these problems? Please message back to continue...
Lonely & Unhappy in Marriage Asked by male, 39 years. married

Love my wife very much but she hates me and wants to take divorce.

I am male 39 years, I am married and about to be divorced, me and my wife are separated for almost a year now. My problem is that I love my wife very very much, unfortunately she doesn't share the same feeling, in fact she has made it clear to me numerous times that she hates me. I find it...

Dear Ajay, thank you for writing in. It takes courage to take this step and reach out to us. I understand you are very distressed and your professional life affected because of the situation you are in. I gather that you are married but separated for a year from your wife whom you still love very much. There's little or no room for a reconciliation since your wife had made her feelings quite clear. I wonder if knowing that hurts you... The problem according to you is you have trouble living your life without her. The main question here is what do you want to do? Do you want to move on or...
Lonely & Unhappy in Marriage Asked by female, 33 years. married

Communication issues with my spouse

Hello, There is always a problem with our marriage. My husband irritates with every single silly thing. If we talk about a day we won't be able to talk to each other for a month or so. He doesn't communicate well when we are speaking also. I am frustrated, kindly help

Dear Writer, thank you for writing to us. I understand you are very upset about the state of your marriage. I think you feel unimportant and that your husband doesn't value your presence in his life. You feel left out. I think you also feel very hurt and frustrated when you and your husband are not able to connect and talk to each other. It hurts you more to see him talk more wholeheartedly with others but not you. Somehow the way you both communicate is creating more friction than solving issues. To understand your situation better can you tell me more about yourself and your husband as...
Lonely & Unhappy in Marriage Asked by male, 47 years. married

Married for 25 years, Wife thinks I am having an affair

I am married for 25 years and my wife thinks I am having affairs, she keeps fighting with me and she blames my elder sister who is aged 52 She has fought with my mother who left her house and is staying away in her native place alone and she is aged 82 years. I and my children live in her house...

Hello, Thank you for taking time to share with the askmile team with regard to your troubled marriage. I understand you are 47 years old and married for the last 25 years. This means you married quite early in life. It appears that from the beginning of the marriage the arrangement was that you would live in her place as she had inherited property from her parents. You said, you are taking care of the house from 2002. There are two major issues you talking about in your write-up. (1) Your wife's dislike and reaction to your family members (2) She accusing you of having affairs. In order...