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One Sided Love Asked by male, 28 years. single

Crush on a girl who is already in a relationship

I am in love with a girl who is already in a relationship. What to do?

Hi Writer, Thank you for writing in. It takes great courage to reach out for help. It seems that you are facing difficulty in dealing with your emotions about a particular girl you seem to like a lot, although you do not seem to know each other very well and are just what you can call acquaintances. Although you have come to hear from a friend that she is in a relationship with somebody else, you cannot stop thinking about her and wish to express your feelings to her, lest you regret missing the opportunity later only to think about "what if...". I understand that it must be a...
One Sided Love Asked by male, 20 years. single

I am in love with my close friend but she is in touch with her ex. Feeling insecure!

There's a little thing that is bothering me a lot. There's this girl who's a real close friend of mine. I really love her and she knows it as I have confessed a few times. I've known her for just one year, but in this one year, she has been a very important person for me. Now what's happening is...

Dear Writer, thank you for writing in. I understand you are upset about the situation you are in. What I would like you to clarify is if your friend feels the same way for you? Unless she's your girlfriend, she is free to interact with whomever she chooses. I understand it hurts you to see your friend give her ex more importance over you. It makes you feel rejected. If she sees you only as a friend while for you clearly it's a lot more than that and therefore your expectations from her are also well beyond that of a friend which is something she can't fulfill whether or not she was...
One Sided Love Asked by female, 25 years. single

A guy is crazily in love with me but I'm not able to move over my ex boyfriend

There's this guy who is crazily in love with me but I am in love with my ex boyfriend. But my ex already moved on with another girl. This new guy is really great but really don't love him. What should I do?

I understand you, your stuck with the decisions. You know the fact that your ex is moved on.....but still your clinging on to it, i know it takes some more time for you to move on....what is it, you love so much in your ex? And not with the guy who loves you so much?remember one thing, if it was true love no one breaks easily! Find whether your relationship was fantasy or true/reality. What type of love you want? and expecting? ?
One Sided Love Asked by male, 20 years. single

Cute girl gives cute smile, not sure if she has feelings

I am a student and there is girl in my class. She behaves normally with everyone and so with me but when ever I look at her she used to give me a cute kind of smile and so on. I just want to know is she is normal with me or something is going on in her mind or I am taking her feelings in a wrong...

HI, I understand your confusion in this matter, sometimes when we like a person, we tend to look at every action they make toward us and tend to think that there is a deeper meaning to it. Maybe she is just being friendly or maybe she is interested in you. The question you should as yourself is whether you are interested in her. Either way, my suggestion would be to approach her and talk to her about it. Have a normal friendly discussion and get to know if her feelings are genuine or she just being friendly. Being open and communicating with her will help you clear your confusion.
One Sided Love Asked by male, 62 years. married

Wife left me 10 years back. Now attracted towards 30 year old married but estranged woman

I am a married man aged 62 years. My wife has given up marital life 10 years back. I managed to stay alone all these years as I had my work and friends. Now I am attracted to a 30 year old married woman who is estranged from her husband. The allurement is overwhelming. What should I do?

Hello, Thanks for reaching out to the askmile team with your concerns about your marriage as well as your attraction with a 30 years old married but estranged from her husband. When the allurement is overwhelming it is not easy to control the interest and passion you feel, especially when there is emotional and physical-sexual deprivation in your marriage. As this younger woman is free from her marriage she might be also interested in you. I agree with you, it very tough to say, NO. Rather, there are many reasons to say YES and enjoy with this woman whom you found alluring. But your...
One Sided Love Asked by female, 16 years. single

I have shared my feeling towards her but she never responded!

I always told my eagerness to see to her neighbor friend and this friend told her my feelings but she never reply. I even gave her my phone no but she didn't take instead she told that she make an excuses.W hat to do her friend always comfort me and told me to forget her.

Hi there! Thank you for reaching out. I understand how hard and confusing it is for you to have her not respond to your feelings. There could be a number of reasons for this behavior though: she could be feeling shy to talk to you; she may want to focus on her education and career and avoid any distractions; she could come from a family that is very strict about her social interactions and relationships, and she does not want to hurt or disappoint them; she may have feelings for someone else; she may simply be not interested in talking to you. From your question it seems that you...
One Sided Love Asked by female, 18 years. single

Rejected by boy in college, stressed, started smoking, attempted suicide

I have just started college and I have lied my way through to grab attention. I really like a boy and have confessed but he loves someone else but says that he likes me also. I'm stressing way too much and have started smoking. I've tried suicide 3-4 times till date but I'm also a coward so never...

Hi, First of all let me tell that you have a lot courage to come to a portal and open up and I really appreciate you that you are doing this, Secondly it is really fine to feel this way about a person, but if things are not working out, the dependance should be avoided, because any substance when started with a reason in our real life from avoidance, then it becomes an addiction over time, and we tend to abuse the usage of substance. Moreover, you have immense amount of intelligence, because you have analysed the entire situation and you know where you stand in you life right now, with...
One Sided Love Asked by female, 24 years. single

Should I wait for a guy to accept me romantically although he has refused?

One side love. Waiting for 3 years, yet he did not accept and he will not accept because of his family circumstance. But he likes me as a friend, speaking as a friend. But I can't give up, can't able to forgot. Can't take as a friend but I need him in my life. Can't take up an other life. Really...

Hi, I understand it is quite frustrating to wait and to wait for someone who can't reciprocate your feelings is quite difficult. Do you think reminding yourself that, "even if you waited for a lifetime he will not be on your side as he will never go against his family" or will it help to talk to him and clarify, "do you think if the family situation was not there you will love me back?" if he responds with a Yes, you pursue in solving a the issues but if he responds with a No, then its you who is harming yourself, isn't it? he doesn't even bother how it will impact you. Is waiting...
One Sided Love Asked by male, 26 years. single

Want to know whether a girl likes me back

I recently met a girl and have texted her few times , I really like her but I don't know whether she likes me or not

Hi, i am sure you have mixed feelings of happiness since you have started liking someone, and anxiousness since you do not know of what she thinks of you, which is experienced by many in similar situations, communication is crucial here, only if you be upfront and talk and understand if she feels the same way, you will be able to put an end to your anxiousness. if both of you are interested then can give more time in understanding each other and deciding how to take it further. chances are that she may feel the same way and equal of her not being interested, whatever it be, do choose to...
One Sided Love Asked by female, 25 years. single

Obsessed with friend but cannot commit to him

I cannot explain this feeling but I would say I am obsessed for him. Like ,I have a friend, we live together, I really love him and he loves me too but as a very good friend. There is no commitment because of personal family issues which was clear day 1 to both of us. Now the problem is I cannot...

Hello, I cannot imagine the pain of being in a such a state, having said that, one addition step that you have taken is extremely bold is opening up about this problem and acknowledging that this particular 'scenario' is bothering you He is your friend, you both were well aware of the situations around you both, but as it was understood to you, it was understood to him as well. Now how do you know if you won't ask him or if you won't discuss with about it. If what you have said is true, and he is your very good friend, I think this conversation won't be tough at all for you to have, and...
One Sided Love Asked by female, 21 years. single

Depressed after being blocked by romantic interest

i was in a relationship 1 year ago wid my best frnds frnd he was quite good but later on he didnt loved me he jst wanted my money. when i went to my village he cheated on me i saw his pics but then too i was wid him he used to keep me asking money always and i gave him bt after my last year exams...

Hi, I can understand what you must be feeling right now. Giving yourself over to somebody completely and then when the relationship breaks can be very upsetting. Coming on this platform and sharing this may not have been easy. You should feel proud that you have taken such a bold step. from what you have shared, it seems like the guy does not want to contine the relationship. hence it is important that you accept this decision and try and move on. I know it wont be easy to do so, however, there are a few things you can do to cope with it and with time you will feel better. The first thing...
One Sided Love Asked by male, 37 years. single

How to get over a person with whom I can't have a relationship?

There is a person who entered in my life recently. And amazing Soul. After being with him for a while when I came back , I realized people around me have started expressing their love for me a little more. Everything has become beautiful. I notice colors a little more and stop to smell flowers....

Greetings :) It is a feeling that often happens, when in initial stages of love that you are in, everything is beautiful. You feel empowered. Often I have noticed that whenever you are in that phase, you tend to love yourself more, the results of which are astounding. When the 'self' is loved by the 'self', everyone around you tends to love you more, and that is what is happening with you also. May be this person is making you realize that you are lovable and since you have started loving yourself more, everyone loves you more and you embrace the beauty in nature. This person might have...