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Quality Time Asked by male, 42 years. married

How to spend quality time with wife?

My wife is very sad because I am not able to spend quality time with her.

Sounds like you are very concerned for you wife, which tells me that you care for her feelings and would want to do something about it to help her feel better. It sounds to me that it is not that you do not want to spend time with her but just that you are not able to for some reason. Well, with your willingness to do something about this, we're halfway there. For starters, identify the reasons as to what is causing you these barriers from being able to spend time with your wife? Is it work, tension/worry, family and friends, health issues, lack of interest, lack of knowing how to be...
Quality Time Asked by female, 40 years. married

Partner does not spend quality time with me

My partner does not have time for me. What should I do?

Having a partner and no quality time being spent together is an unpleasant situation to be in. Reasons why a partner might not have time for the other could be because of stress/ fatigue/ health issues/ too much work on their plate/ loosing interest in partner/ cheating/ lack of being able to come to common grounds or common interests on what to do during the quality time/ different time zones if in a long distance relationship/ mis-match of time schedules due to work schedules/ too much time take up by other social groups such as family or friends or colleagues, etc. Figure out what...
Quality Time Asked by female, 29 years. married

Not able to spend quality time with husband due to job and MIL's interference.

Mine is a love marriage. We got married this year against the will of our parents. But problems started few months in the marriage. I work In night shifts and my husband is currently jobless. Managing time is a challenge for us. To top it all, my mother in law does not like me and tries to create...

Hello Writer, Thanks for reaching out to the Askmile team with your concerns about your marriage. It is a tough thing to accept that your dreams about marriage spoiled after a few months. With lot of expectations you agreed to this marriage but now find that your dreams are shattered. It is a very disturbing experience and we are here to help you to understand yourself and your marriage. There are a number of issues that I notice in your mail. You along with your husband agreed for the marriage in spite of objection from the family. Do you mean both families objected to the...
Quality Time Asked by male, 36 years. married

My wife engrossed herself, has outgoing nature. I am stressed due to my illness

I am 35 year old male married for almost a decade. I have a daughter who is 5 years old. I cannot stand my wife for the reason that she is just engrossed in herself every time. I am having a critical heart ailment due to which I am very stressed out every time. My wife has an outgoing nature and...

Hello Writer, Thank you for reaching out to the Askmile team with you concerns regarding your marriage. I am a professional counsellor with 25 years of experience in marriage and family counselling. I will be responding to your concerns and questions. We are here to help you. Whenever you have something disturbing keep writing to me and I will respond with one comprehensive response every day. You are married for almost a decade and have a five year old daughter. You feel that your wife is not interested in you any more. You feel helpless that you are not able to perform your marital...
Quality Time Asked by female, 24 years. single

In relationship with someone for 4 years, but recently had sex with another man. Feeling guilty

I am in a relationship for four years now. From past one year, he has been working at a place away from me. Since he is usually busy he doesn't give enough time to me I have now used to it. He does come to meet me whenever he is free, meanwhile, I met a person approximately 8 months ago and we...

Hello, Thanks for reaching out to the askmile team with your concners. We are here to help you. Thank you for trusting us with your serious issues in life. It appears that you are emotionally and relationally unsettled and your four year old relationship appears to be not grounded. Three years he was close to you but the last one year he was away for work. The physical distance (and lack of emotional and sexual intimacy) papear to push you to find sexual happioness in the other man who was your best friend. You did not want to do it, but he had his way which is not at all convincing. You...