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Trust Issues Asked by female, 28 years. married

Husband trusts his mother instead of me

My husband trusts my MIL instead of me. I don't want to live with my in-laws.

Sounds to me like you're disheartened that your husband has not yet given you the importance that you seek from him in his life. You want him to trust you as much. After marriage, looks like he has not been able to welcome you and accept you as an equally important member in his family and this has left you feeling out of place and not warmly accepted. It's important that both spouses realise what marriage brings into their life and how it shall affect other aspects of their life. Their needs to be a balance of importance paced in both relationship with spouse as well as the other family...
Trust Issues Asked by female, 31 years. married

Husband flirts casually with friend but not with me

My husband does not flirt with me or appreciate me. But he casually flirts with his old friend.

When it comes to flirting while being in a relationship, there's a very thin line between what's acceptable and what's not. You are distressed with the fact that your husband does not flirt with you or appreciate you. You long for his attention. However, he has no issues flirting with an old friend. It's possible that that's the relationship he has been sharing with her till date. However, that does not account for what's lacking for you in the marriage. https://www.askmile.com/blog/flirting-cheating-relationship/ Perhaps it would help for you to speak your heart to him about how you...
Trust Issues Asked by male, 29 years. married

Wife suspects me of having affair with brother's wife

My wife suspects me of having an affair with my brother's wife without any basis. She wants me to move out of the house with her because of this. I have tried explaining to her that there is nothing like that but she is not understanding. There are fights in my house every day.

Hi Writer, thank you for writing in. It takes great courage to reach out for help. It seems that you are facing difficulty in your marriage with your wife doubting you with no basis and asking you to move out with her which is not realistic and is unfair to you. Although you have tried all in your capacity to explain to her but she is not willing to get convinced and this can be emotionally frustrating for you to deal with on a daily basis. I understand that it must be a difficult position for you to be in trying to balance between your family and your wife. Firstly, I would...
Trust Issues Asked by female, 29 years. married

Trust issues in marriage due to MIL's interference

My mother-in-law's interference has turned my husband against me. He does not show any interest in talking to me and does not ask for me to return from my parents' home. There are trust issues between us.

This seems to be quite an issue in many marriages, interference from the in-laws. It must be quite painful to watch our husband cut off from you because of external influence. It's unfortunate that your mother-in-law has meddled between the two of you to the extent of you having left their home. In my understanding, you and your husband need to sit down and talk about this, to know each other's stance in the situation. If the trust issues exist between you two because of a specific reason, then talking about it will definitely help. If either of you have given the other a reason to have...
Trust Issues Asked by female, 22 years. single

How do I work out with my boyfriend who doubts me and judges me based on my past.

I love a boy in my college but I don't know whether he loves me I mean I think he loves me but we fight a lot and we are not at all compatible we used to be very good in the beginning but now it's worst. How do Make this relation work he doubts me and he now a days does not respect me he has...

Dear Priya, thank you for writing in. I understand that you are upset and frustrated about the state of your relationship. To understand better and help you accordingly can you tell me how long have you been in this relationship and what is this incident from your past that has made your boyfriend not trust and respect you? Please do message back to continue our discussion. Regards.
Trust Issues Asked by female, 32 years. single

Have an affair with a married man. Don't think he will marry me.

Hi, I am having an affair with a married guy since three years. He is a real good human being, but he hides his marital status at the beginning, later he told me by himself. He lives in another city but come twice in a month to see me. He has all the qualities of a good boyfriend. At the...

Dear Writer, I understand your anxiety about the fate of your relationship. You mentioned that your boyfriend is great and he had all the qualities you want in a partner, yet doesn't want to marry you. I wonder if it isn't hurtful to have to know that? Secondly even though him and his wife are separated, are they divorced or are the proceedings on? Do you know why he doesn't want to marry you and have you discussed it? Had something happened to make him change his mind? The most important question you might might have to ask yourself is of you trust him enough to wait till he comes around?...
Trust Issues Asked by female, 23 years. single

Unhappy with new boyfriend, ex-boyfriend cheated on me

I can't decide whether I should stay in the present relationship. I had a breakup 2yrs back. The person cheated me despite of 5yrs of relationship. I got into a new relationship 8months back. I was happy, I thought we are compatible, he loves me. I like him, care for him and also love him but I...

Hello, Thank you for writing to us. I can see that you are going through many questions in your head and also are afraid and affected with experiences of the past. I would say follow this famous quote. Past is History, future is mystery and present is a gift. Stay in the present. The person who says he loves you in the present deserves your love and attention. He seems to be having some insecurities and has some problems which he tells you on the phone. Be a good listener. This world needs more people who just listen and not give advice or make judgements. This world has a bigger illness...
Trust Issues Asked by female, 15 years. single

Suspect relationship between bestie and ex-boyfriend

i am pretty young but im dealing with depression. i recently had a forceful breakup with my boyfriend because according to him, his parents got to know about us so he had to do it. but there is something going on between my bestie and him. my bestie is a good friend of mine and his. but rumours...

Hi :) Breakups can be really hard, no matter what age you are. I'm sure this is a difficult time for you. During breakups however, we may not always be very objective when it come to the ex. The first thing to remember is not to jump to conclusions about anything just yet. There's a chance that rumours are just rumours and you might be wrong about your best friend and ex. I would suggest that you talk to another person who is completely objective about the whole situation and see if they think they are cheating as well. If yes, then the first step to take would be to confront it. Ask...
Trust Issues Asked by female, 19 years. single

Is my boyfriend with me only for financial gain?

My boy frd keeps asking me....for money ..idk if he truely loves me or is he being with me for money!!i am confused to choose

Greetings for the day! I can understand the confusion, and it is totally understood that by being humans, our brain wanders down some lanes which are just all the more confusing. Let me tell you that, there is an easy way out to let things fall into place in no time. Why don't you just start telling that you are short of cash(which might be true if you keep lending him), and increase the amount of trust that you have on the relationship. Within no time, you can understand what are the dynamics of your relationship. If you want to connect and discuss more about the same, do send me a...