Feel happy texting another man despite being in a marriage

Dear friend,
I'd like to appreciate you for trying to face your problem and trying to help yourself. It takes a lot of courage to do that.

I know you're going through a difficult time right now.
You're torn apart what what you want and what you feel is right.

From what you've told me, I understand that you know what it feels like to be cheated on and the emotional damage it can cause to the other person.

So you know to some extent that even harmless texting can hurt the other person involved.
Although it may not be completely wrong to text someone, it's more about how you feel about the person you're texting everyday.

If you have feelings for this person, and you want to get over these feelings, it's probably not a good idea to keep reminding yourself of him and texting him.

But ultimately the decision lies with you.
Ask yourself what you want and what would make you happy.

You probably wrote to us because of the mental anguish and guilt that you felt.
It seems like talking to both people seems to be hurting you more.
To avoid that, it would probably be better to introspect and ask yourself who you really want to be with.

Let's continue this session over private chat.
Do write us back.
Take care and be strong :)