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My spouse does not understand, gets angry, blames me for everything.

Asked by Female, 24, Married
I am 24 years old and a mother of a 3 year old boy. I am having a problem in my marriage. My husband never understands me & gets angry with me. He always blames me for everything. Sometimes he says that I should get out from his house. I live with my in-laws. We are married for 5 years. He does not tell me anything. We hardly converse, Please help me.
Thumb sneha jayagopal

Dear writer, thank you for writing to us. It takes courage to reach out and take this step.
I understand you are upset over the state of your marriage. Your husband doesn't understand you and gets angry with you. He also blames you for everything.
Your husband doesn't tell you anything and both of you hardly talk to each other. That can be upsetting too.
To understand your situation better and help you accordingly could you answer the following
How do you feel towards your husband?
What kind of things make him angry and what does he blame you for?
Can you tell me more about yourself and your husband as individuals?
Please message back to continue discussing. I am here to help. Regards

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