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Wife's anger, negativity, and misunderstanding causing bad marital relationship

Asked by Male, 32, Married
My wife has anger issues and is negative. There is a lot of misunderstanding due to which our marriage is going bad.
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Counseling Psychologist

Hi Writer, thank you for writing in. It takes great courage to reach out for help.

It seems that you are facing difficulty in your marriage as you struggle to maintain a good relationship with your wife due to her anger and misunderstandings. I understand that it must be a difficult position for you to be in and cope with.

Firstly, I would appreciate the courage in you for being able to manage so far.
Could you tell me a little bit about yourself and your wife individuals? What do you both do?
Was it an arranged or a love marriage? For how long have you both been married?
How has the marriage been so far? When did these issues start occurring? What according to you could be the reasons for these issues?
Who else live with you in the family?
What usually makes your wife angry? What are the misconceptions she holds?
I wonder how have you both been coping so far? What has helped you to keep going?
Could you tell me things that you enjoy about your relationship and what you like/love about your wife?
Answering these questions will help me understand your situation better and enable me to guide you accordingly.

Secondly, how would you like me to help you with your situation? What is it that you are hoping to seek through this counselling process?

Please respond back to continue our discussion. Looking forward to hearing from you.
Warm regards.

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