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Abusive boyfriend, gets angry, threatens to commit suicide if I break up with him

Asked by Female, 20, Single
i am suffering from high stress full life just bez of my bf . he abuse me . he just want to control me like I am a machine.he is so angry . if I say I want breakup. .then he just blackmail me by saying tht he will tell everything to my parents & commit a suicide. .he had try tht ones. . he loves me. .bt I can't handle this now. .wht should I do? plz help. .I don't want him to die. .bt if I be with him I will die. . I can't tolerate it now. .m dead inside. .plz help
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Harish Bhuvanendran
Life Coach

Hello, Of what I had read, I once had a friend who had a similar problem. She built up the courage and first thing that she did was to go to her parents and spoke with her parents regarding this faulty relationship, later she went and told him that she wouldn't want to continue the relationship. I can see that you clearly still care for him, hence you wrote that you don't want him to die, let me tell you that if you are in this relationship it is clearly stressing you out and you need to get out of that relationship. Also I assure you that, such an abusive person won't end up his life because you would leave him.I also want to let you know that whatever it is, at any time of day or night, you can also engage with any of our experts, or send a  message to me and we can see that how we can co create a space where we can work together for a possible solution to your problem.

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