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How to get a partner who will give emotional and physical support, advice for girlfriend?

Asked by Male, 27, Single
How to deal with never having been into a relationship? so much judgement and comparison is being done, I don't want to get married any time soon, just want a partner for emotional, physical support. Also give advice on getting a girlfriend, currently there is no potential girl,
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Thumb sneha jayagopal
Sneha
Psychotherapist

Dear Writer, thank you writing in. Well it's certainly not easy playing the field but do not be disheartened. It's good that you know what you want out of a relationship and that you don't take it too lightly either. Yes you might open yourself up to judgments and comparisons but it is also upto you to filter out the unimportant and inconsequential. The more sure you are of yourself, the lesser these comparisons will affect you. When you say you need advice could you perhaps let me know how you are while socialising with women. Do you feel comfortable and confident? It might help if you socialise without the soul intention of getting a girlfriend. It might help you relax around women. It also helps to interact with the intention of getting to know someone out of interest and if you both find there's more to the interaction then it will naturally head in the direction of a possible rrelatioship.
What avenues do you use to meet and interact with women? How comfortable are you with idea of dating?
Although there are no tips and tricks to getting a girlfriend, what might always work in your favour is your personality and how you view and treat women at large.

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