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Husband don't respect me and mother in law creates problems between us

Asked by Female, 25, Married
how can i save my marriage when my husband could not respect me in any way and i think that feelings in my heart for my husband is also decreasing i got married before six years my husband loves me very much but he listen his mother too and trust her so she always create problem among us many time she create situation to seperate us but i loose my self respect and by patience i always save my marriage we have two babies my husband abuses me he want that i could fear from him but now i loose my patience and i am iternally very depressed,i also want to save my marriage my husband think that i am responsible to destroy his life what can i do
Thumb sneha jayagopal

Dear Writer, thank you for writing in. I understand you are feeling depressed about your situation. You've been married for 6 years and your husband who loves you abuses you because of what his mother says. I understand that suffering abuse from your husband has lessened your feelings towards your him. To understand better could you tell me what is it that your mother in law says that makes your husband hurt you like this? You don't feel respected in the marriage and are losing patience which is natural to feel after what you have gone through. What do you do when your husband abuses you? Do you leave the room or do you continue arguing with him? It also seems as though your relationship with your mother in law is not very good. Can you tell me why that is? To save your marriage the most important thing to focus on is trust and respect. Do you think your husband trusts you and do you trust him? When your husband blames you for destroying his life, did he go through some bad experience that had made him feel like this? More importantly how bad is the abuse? Do you fear your own safety? Please do message back to continue our discussion. Regards.

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