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Pregnant and want to avoid divorce

Asked by Female, 27, Married

Hi , I got married 8 months before. My relation with my husband is not at all good. He never given me respect and support that i need. My in-laws have lots of interference in our relationship. Whenever my husband abuse me my mother-in law always take his side. I am pregnant now. My husband is not concern about that at all. I am at my parents house. We are not in a talking terms. Our relationship reached at the divorce point now.

Answer

Sneha

Psychotherapist

Answered over 4 years ago

Dear writer, thank you for writing to us. I understand that your situation can be very upsetting and painful for you. Firstly, congratulations on your pregnancy although I understand it has been a stressful time for you. Can you tell me how you feel towards your husband and his family at this point and what your worries are? You said you have suffered a lot of abuse and as much it affected you emotionally was there any physical abuse as well?
Even though you said you both are at a divorce stage, is it something you want? Are you afraid of what will happen if you proceed with the divorce? Do you have any anxieties about your future?
You have been hurt a lot and need time to heal. Please let me know what you would like to focus on and I can help you accordingly. Do message back to continue our discussion. We are here to help. Regards.

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