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Anxiety towards intimacy issues, how to overcome this issue?

Asked by Female, 27, In relationship
I am 27-year-old, I am suffering from sex issue. I and my boyfriend is going to marry soon. But since last 6-7 months, I have lost interest in sex with him. Because of this now we fight a lot. Don't know what to do. Why am I not interested towards sex?
Answer
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Sneha
Psychotherapist

Dear Writer, thank you for writing to us. It takes courage to reach out and ask for help. I understand you are concerned about your lack of interest in sex. Reduced sexual desire is more common than you think. We have to figure out what your reasons are. Did you go through any stress or did anything else happen in your life or relationship around the same time? Any changes? The incident can be emotional, physical or even medical changes...
Although your both fight a lot I understand you struggle to explain why this is happening.
Could you also tell me more about your relationship before your problem started?
What kind of a person are you and your boyfriend?
Answering these questions will help me guide you accordingly. Please message back to continue discussing. Regards

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