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Boyfriend used to bring up ex during fights, cannot accept him despite change
Asked by Female, 23, Single
I am in a relationship for 3 years. I am not the 1st girl to him. And also, initial days of our relationship, he was flirting with a girl. After a big fight he choose me and he completely into me. But when ever a fight comes atlast we will reach to his ex. And also he is to compare his exs and me when he is angry and used to describe their body parts Infront of me used to verbally abuse me and once he told me that he wants to sleep with my sister. Now he has changed but even though I love him I can't forget the past and can't accept his past.
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Hepzibah.P
Counseling Psychologist
Hi,
I know you love him so much, and you can't give up on him. And I know it's difficult to trust a person again, once you loose the trust on him. What do you think? what type of a person he is? Explore more on it, get to know more about him.The more you explore the better you get to know!
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